When it comes to parenting, one of the first ways we evaluate each other is by the names we choose for our children. A name is essentially the first introduction to a person; it shapes their identity and how they are perceived in the world. Parents often spend months, if not years, deliberating over the perfect name, only to face approval or disapproval from others—sometimes even ridicule from those who are overly judgmental.
For those interested in baby names, there is a plethora of resources available, including extensive lists and galleries. These collections often serve as a critique of naming trends. The most popular names let us look down on the perceived conformity of the masses, informing us of potential classmates for our children or the names we might see frequently on social media. And if you think you won’t encounter a name like “Liam” or “Olivia,” think again—these are virtually everywhere!
On the flip side, lists of the most unique names allow us to shake our heads at parents attempting to set their children apart with eccentric choices. A name like “Cheese”? It’s hard to fathom that multiple parents would decide on such an unconventional name for their child.
Before I became a parent, I was inclined to choose something distinctive. As a child named Jennifer, I experienced the challenges of sharing a name with many others—my high school class alone had several Jennifers, and my last name didn’t help distinguish me either. I never intended to fall into the same trap as my parents, yet here I am, a Jennifer with a child whose name is surprisingly popular. After some reflection, I’ve come to appreciate the benefits of choosing a common name.
When selecting a name for my son, I wanted to avoid anything too obscure, yet I also didn’t want something that would scream “trendy.” My husband and I agreed on one key criterion: the name had to be easy to spell and pronounce. This requirement stemmed from my own experiences watching my mother, whose unique name, Ileene, was often misspelled and mispronounced. Even in today’s digital age, where names can be easily typed, she still encounters errors.
We ultimately chose the name “Ethan” for our son, which turned out to be the fifth most popular name for boys born in 2009. I became acutely aware of its popularity when he attended summer camp. In his class of 14, there were two boys named Ethan, along with another boy named Evan and a girl named Eva. It felt overwhelming at first, as I worried I had made the wrong choice.
To my surprise, the kids didn’t seem to mind. My son became known as Ethan T, while the girl was simply Eva, and the other Ethan was called Ethan B. They all managed to carve out their own identities, regardless of overlapping names. My son even took it a step further, dubbing himself “Ethan the Great,” which brought a chuckle to the whole situation.
This experience helped me reconsider my preconceived notions about common names. What’s the benefit of choosing an unusual name? Even if you think you’re selecting something unique, chances are, someone else has the same idea. Even that quirky choice “Cheese” isn’t as singular as it seems, as multiple families thought they were being original.
Does a rare name truly signify individuality? Whether your child is named Noah, Ava, or even something more distinctive, each child is unique in their own right. Their name does not define their essence. Regardless of whether they are called Ethan, Emma, or even Juice (after all, if Apple can be a name, why not?), what matters is how they perceive themselves.
There’s no need to complicate life with a name that might prompt confusion or teasing. Your child will naturally stand out because of who they are. Except for those eight kids named Cheese—they might just blend right in.
In summary, choosing a common name for your child can provide clarity and ease in social situations, allowing them to form their own identity without the added burden of an unusual name. Every child is special, regardless of their name, and they will shine in their own unique way.
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