In the realm of relationships, my partner and I always considered ourselves the youthful pair. We began our journey together at the tender age of 18, tying the knot earlier than our peers and unintentionally starting a family soon after. “You’re just kids!” was a frequent refrain when people discovered our ages, blissfully unaware of how fortunate we felt in that phase of life. Occasionally, we would even inflate our ages just to sidestep those awkward discussions.
However, that phase has now passed.
Recently, while my children took over the playlist during our summer road trip—playing the same Taylor Swift album on repeat—I had a startling realization: my daughter, Lily, is closer to the age of 22 than I am. TWENTY-TWO! That was a time filled with joy and freedom that doesn’t seem too distant… yet there she is, nearing that age faster than I ever could have imagined. Thanks a lot, Taylor, for that rude awakening.
It’s been weeks, and I can’t shake that unsettling thought. So, in the spirit of shared suffering—because that’s what writing is about, right?—here are some harsh reminders that might just bring on a wave of nostalgia (or dread).
- Remember that adorable Nirvana baby? He’s now 21 and likely using his fleeting fame as a pickup line at a bar—where he can legally drink, mind you.
- The iconic Ross and Rachel kiss that filled you with joy? That moment occurred 18 years ago. EIGHTEEN.
- Songs from Pearl Jam and Soundgarden are now classified as classic rock.
- You might recall the fact that “the human head weighs eight pounds,” but did you know that little Jonathan Lipnicki from Jerry Maguire has grown up into quite the character?
- Kids born in 1997 are now legally allowed to drive.
- The album Blood Sugar Sex Magik was released 22 years ago; a child conceived during its debut would now be turning 21—probably sharing a drink with that Nirvana baby.
- The Challenger disaster occurred 27 years ago.
- The children you once babysat might now be married, perhaps even starting families of their own. (Mine certainly are. Ouch.)
- Johnny Depp has reached the age of 50.
- We are now officially considered adults. Apologies for the reality check.
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In summary, confronting the passage of time can be a sobering experience. As we reflect on our youth, it’s essential to embrace the changes that come with aging—both personally and as parents.
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