In a recent episode of her podcast, Jenna Collins, a singer and former television star, shared her candid thoughts about the backlash she faced for her choice not to breastfeed her daughter, Emily. Though it’s been nearly four years since Emily was born, the emotional toll of that experience still resonates with her.
Jenna revealed that from the start, she had no inclination to nurse Emily. “I wasn’t breastfed myself,” she explained. “I didn’t feel like I needed that connection with my baby. Honestly, I’m not a fan of having my nipples touched; it just doesn’t sit well with me.” Despite her initial reluctance, Jenna decided to give it a shot because her partner, Mark, felt strongly about breastfeeding. However, the experience quickly became overwhelming.
“My milk was late coming in, and the doctors recommended supplementing and pumping,” she recalled. “It was incredibly stressful, and I ended up in tears as Emily lost more weight than was acceptable.” Eventually, her milk did arrive, but by then, they had already chosen to switch to formula feeding. Jenna mentioned the intense shame and negativity she received from others regarding her decision.
After the birth of her son, Lucas, Jenna experienced a wave of guilt. Lucas faced health challenges early on, and Jenna felt pressured to breastfeed him to ensure he stayed healthy. “Everyone kept saying, ‘Breast is best. This is how he’s not going to get sick,’” she noted. “I thought, ‘What if he gets worse? Is it because I didn’t breastfeed him?’” It was a rollercoaster of emotions for her, and she even found herself crying while trying to navigate nursing Lucas until Mark stepped in to support her.
Navigating motherhood can be tough, especially when it comes to choices like feeding. Many moms experience similar feelings of guilt and shame, and it’s essential to remember that every family’s situation is unique. You can find more information on infertility and related topics from resources like Women’s Health.
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In summary, Jenna’s story highlights the challenges many parents face, reminding us that it’s okay to make choices that work best for our families. For more resources on pregnancy and home insemination, visit Modern Family Blog.