Two weeks ago, I sent my daughter Sophie off to overnight camp for an extended two-month stay. To be completely frank, the choice to enroll her was not entirely voluntary for either of us. While Sophie was initially enthusiastic about the experience, as the departure date approached, she began to express reservations. This shift led me to question whether sending her to camp was the right decision. Although it appears she’s thriving, I find myself grappling with several challenges of overnight camp. Here are the reasons:
1. Limited Photos
The camp photographer seems to have a knack for completely missing my daughter, much like Sophie avoids doing her chores. Each day, I scour through nearly 1500 photos, hoping to catch a glimpse of her, only to find her face hidden in the background of a group shot.
2. Impact of the Missing Photos
The scant photos I do manage to find become the object of intense scrutiny. While most parents see a clean uniform, I start imagining that Sophie isn’t eating, leading to the grim conclusion that she must have gone days without changing clothes.
3. The Letters I Receive
Sophie excels at math but struggles with the basics of letter writing. I’ve had to send her a diagram illustrating how to properly address an envelope after receiving letters that lacked return addresses and had the addressee and stamp on the back. So far, I’ve received three letters: one requesting her tennis racket, another lamenting about the rain and inquiring if I got her letters (both signed just “Sophie”), and the third detailing a conflict with a bunkmate, signed “Sincerely, Sophie Johnson.”
4. The Letters I Write
Crafting letters for my camper is no small feat. I must avoid sharing updates from home that could trigger homesickness. Instead, I’m left to compose endless questions about camp life, driven by the few glimpses I’ve seen in the camp’s online gallery. “I noticed there were camp Olympics last weekend! What events did you compete in? Who are your counselors? Please, send more pictures!” I realize now that my letters resemble those of an overly zealous fan trying to connect with a celebrity.
5. Visiting Day Woes
Ah, Visiting Day. It’s a bittersweet occasion. I long to see my daughter, but I dread the timing. Just as the kids begin to settle in and adapt to camp life, we parents swoop in for a brief visit, only to leave them again. This disruption can undo the progress they’ve made, leading to visions of counselors trying to detach Sophie from our car as we drive off. If anyone has any ideas for contagious but non-threatening excuses to avoid this day, I’m all ears!
6. The Void of Her Absence
I often thought about how a break from our daily battles would provide a welcome respite. However, the quietness in the house without Sophie (and her lively interactions with her brother) has taken me by surprise. Passing by her tidy room, where everything is in order, reminds me just how much I miss her boisterous and lovable presence.
Despite my struggles and anxieties, I know sending Sophie to camp was an excellent decision for her personal growth. The photos show her smiling, making new friends, and embracing new activities with confidence. She confronted her fears of being away from home and not only survived but thrived.
In retrospect, perhaps my feelings about overnight camp are not as negative as I initially thought.
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Summary
Sending a child to overnight camp can stir a mix of emotions for parents, from worries about communication to the challenges of visiting day. While the experience may initially seem daunting, witnessing the child’s growth and happiness can ultimately validate the decision.
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