I’ve been to my fair share of baby showers, and while they can be a lot of fun—especially with the games and socializing—there’s always been one aspect that felt a bit uncomfortable for me: the gift-giving part. When I found out I was expecting, I knew that asking friends and family to buy things for me wasn’t something I wanted to do (though I understand if others feel differently!).
My partner, Alex, and I have been planning for a baby for a while now, slowly accumulating secondhand baby essentials and taking advantage of sales. By the time I became pregnant, we had most of what we needed.
Then one day, while scrolling through social media, I stumbled upon the concept of nesting parties. These gatherings, where friends come together to help you prepare for your little one, are becoming a popular trend on platforms like TikTok and Instagram. The idea is simple: invite your friends over to assist with tasks like meal prepping or assembling baby furniture. The photos I saw were heartwarming and felt much more genuine than traditional baby showers. Plus, there was no pressure to create a registry or expect gifts.
I decided to throw a nesting party, and I couldn’t be happier with that choice. My friends were thrilled to help, and it turned out to be an intimate and meaningful experience. We spent the day organizing the nursery, prepping freezer meals, and sharing laughter and stories. It was a great way to bond and prepare for the upcoming arrival of our baby.
If you’re looking for a more personal and less commercial way to celebrate your pregnancy, I highly recommend considering a nesting party. It’s a wonderful alternative that allows you to engage with your loved ones while focusing on what truly matters: welcoming your new addition to the family.
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In summary, a nesting party can be a delightful way to prepare for a new baby, allowing you to connect with friends while focusing on the essentials. It’s an experience filled with genuine support and love, without the awkwardness of gift-giving expectations.