You may think you understand THAT child—the one who seems too mature to be throwing a tantrum in the towel aisle at a store. THAT child who pelts other kids with mulch at the playground repeatedly. THAT child who uses an excessive amount of inappropriate language. THAT child who pushes boundaries too far. THAT child who disrupts a restaurant with loud screams. THAT child who reacts aggressively to a simple “Hello!” from a stranger. THAT child who you advise your own kids to avoid, fearing that his behavior might influence them negatively.
But the truth is, you don’t know THAT child.
You are unaware of the countless hours his mother has invested in waiting rooms, collaborating with pediatric therapists, researching dietary options, and exploring behavior modification techniques. You have no idea that his father has sacrificed days at work, spent years providing sponge baths, and honed the art of the ‘squeezy hug’ to help calm him down. You cannot comprehend the overwhelming pride she feels when he greets his therapist with open arms, only to experience heartbreak when he lashes out moments later. You don’t see the sadness when he is excluded from parties, Disney rides, playdates, story hours, and movies because he “can’t make it stop”—whatever the current “it” may be.
You are not aware that he was once a calm, cheerful baby until a virus at seven weeks old seemingly transformed his personality. You don’t know that he would choose to snuggle in a chair with his beloved blanket all day, if he didn’t have to face the world. You might not realize that he is the first to sense when an animal is frightened and immediately offers his cherished blanket to comfort it. You don’t see how gentle he is with infants, noticing every tiny detail. You have no idea that he begins each day by asking his mother how well she slept the night before. You don’t know that he willingly shares his treats without expecting anything in return. You’re not aware that cooking is one of his passions—breakfast is his specialty. You don’t understand that he feels out of place in the world but struggles to find a way to fit in.
You may not know the depth of love one can feel for a little person like him.
I understand all of this because THAT child is my son, Alex. And it’s important for you to remember that.
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Understanding children who exhibit challenging behaviors requires empathy and awareness of their unique circumstances. These children often face struggles that are invisible to outsiders, shaped by their experiences and the dedication of their families. By acknowledging their complexities, we can foster a more inclusive and supportive environment.
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