It’s not just the vibrant music of the 1980s that captivates my kids; they seem to have an authentic appreciation for nearly everything from my cherished decade. During our weekly family nights, we love to watch The Goldbergs, which transports us back to a time when life felt less complicated, even as they enjoy their own uncomplicated childhood. This experience has been a precious gift, fostering unexpected bonds over nostalgic memories that I am eager to share.
On a recent shopping trip for summer attire for my daughter, I was both thrilled and surprised when she chose a pair of bright, colorful shorts reminiscent of those I wore in 1985. As she tried on the teal and purple pair, I couldn’t help but daydream about the return of classic Jordache jeans.
During the same outing, she also discovered a newfound fascination with jelly shoes—bright pink ones that were a size too small. I assured her we would keep looking for a pair that fit and even entertained the idea of getting myself a pair. I reminisced about my first jelly shoes, which, despite causing sweaty feet and occasional blisters, sparkled beautifully in the summer sun.
While my son, uninterested in fashion, teased his sister about her latest obsession, he spent hours glued to YouTube, mastering the Rubik’s Cube. He can solve it in record time, boasting about his skills. I reminded him that back in my day, we didn’t have internet tutorials; kids would merely peel off stickers to create the illusion of being Rubik’s experts. One morning, I was startled awake by the soft clicking of the cube—he was up at 5:30 a.m. practicing his technique.
Although the fashion and trends of the ’80s were remarkable, my favorite aspect has always been the films. I still remember my wonder when Elliott met E.T. and the heartache of their farewell. The thrilling moment when the DeLorean sped out of Twin Pines Mall is etched in my mind, as is the shock when Gizmo’s furry offspring made their dramatic appearance. Reliving these moments with my children has been a joy, allowing them to learn the same lessons I did: that Goonies never die and that one should never mess with the babysitter.
We frequently enjoy ’80s movies together on designated movie nights, on sick days, or during those evenings when we crave a return to simpler times. Recently, my son, home from school with a virus, watched Over the Top, a film where Sylvester Stallone strives to reconnect with his son through arm wrestling. It’s cheesy, yes, but also incredibly moving. I could see the glimmer of tears in my son’s eyes, even if he won’t admit it. This connection to the past—and the innocence of childhood—is something I am grateful to see reflected in my children.
I’m delighted that the 1980s are making a resurgence in popular culture. For those of us fortunate enough to have lived, played, and grown up during this phenomenal decade, the spirit of the ’80s never truly faded.
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In summary, sharing my love for the ’80s with my children has created lasting memories and deepened our familial bonds. As we explore the music, movies, and trends of that era together, I am reminded of the innocence and joy of childhood that continues to thrive in my kids today.