One afternoon, I entered the bathroom only to find the lid down, a quirky habit my youngest had adopted to “keep the cats from falling in and drowning.” As I lifted the lid, I was momentarily startled by a burst of color, initially mistaking it for an impending spider attack. To my relief, it turned out to be a large, vibrant sticker of Killington Mountain—definitely not the decor I envisioned for my toilet, but certainly unexpected.
My eldest daughter soon joined me, wearing a beaming smile. “Do you love it?” she asked proudly.
I’ve always aimed to provide what I like to call a “lighthearted parenting” experience for my daughters. They enjoy writing with chalk on the garage floor and adorning the stair railing with colorful ribbons. Their fort in the backyard is a creative haven, filled with items that some might consider junk, yet to them, it’s a treasure trove of imagination. We embrace creativity by repurposing leftover gift ribbons and the quirky shapes that come with online orders.
While we do strive for some semblance of order in our home, my husband and I maintain certain areas free from the delightful chaos of childhood. There are designated bins for shoes and specific spots for backpacks and homework. Chores exist—such as matching socks, washing dishes, and cleaning the cat litter—but they don’t always get done. Like many families, we are a work in progress.
This approach may not suit everyone, but for us, lighthearted parenting has proven to be ideal. We may be a bit messier and willing to bend more rules than others might find comfortable, but this lifestyle grants our daughters the freedom to explore and unleash their creativity. It allows my husband and me to relax and avoid the stress of enforcing rules we don’t really want to adhere to anyway. After over a decade of parenting, we’ve learned that sometimes it’s best to just go with the flow.
Here are a few things we choose not to fret over that might concern other parents:
- Glitter
Initially, my husband resisted this sparkly crafting staple, but we’ve found that it’s the perfect antidote to sibling squabbles. “Want to use glitter for a project?” is always met with shouts of joy. - Unmade Beds
Life is too short to spend a few minutes each day making beds. An unmade bed is far more impressive after several days of neglect. - Towels on the Floor
Only one of our three daughters tends to leave towels lying around. When I find them, I take it as a reminder to bathe our pets. - Writing on Mirrors
Since no one else visits our upstairs bathroom, I don’t mind if it looks like a backseat window after a long car trip. Every shower seems to leave behind a sweet “I love you” message on the mirror, which I cherish. - LEGOs Everywhere
If there are LEGO creations set up on every stair, it means my daughters are actively engaged in play and inventiveness. Their attempts to keep them in the corners show they’re at least trying to avoid injuring us!
As for the giant sticker that I mistook for a spider, I look forward to sharing the story of how our toilet became adorned with “The Beast.” Yes, we decided to leave it there.
This article was originally published on April 8, 2005.
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In summary, lighthearted parenting fosters an environment where children can thrive creatively and parents can enjoy the journey without the constant pressure of rigid rules. Embracing a little chaos can lead to unforgettable memories and a joyful childhood.
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