Movies have always been a cherished part of my life, and I’ve long dreamed of a time when my entire family could enjoy the same film together. My partner has been eager to introduce our three daughters to his beloved ’80s films since the first time they were captivated by a children’s program. “Do they really have TVs back then?” our youngest, Lily, quipped, which elicited a chuckle from us.
As we transitioned into the realm of popular shows like Jessie and iCarly, my partner decided it was time to share the cinematic treasures of his youth. “We’re starting with Star Wars,” he declared, anticipating my enthusiastic endorsement. However, my hesitation was evident. “I’m not sure they are ready for that yet,” I replied, trying to recall the details of the films.
“What about The Goonies?” he suggested excitedly.
I couldn’t help but laugh. “No way, it won’t hold up.”
“Goonies? It’s a classic! They’ll love it!” he insisted, mimicking the famous “Baby Ruth” line. After considering his excitement, I decided to embrace the moment and see how it unfolded. We gathered the girls and introduced the concept of a “movie from when mom and dad were kids.”
Lily, our six-year-old, gasped. “You mean you had TVs for movies back then?”
“Yes, your father had a TV, and we watched films. This one is called The Goonies. Dad adored it. You will too!” I explained.
Our middle daughter, Zoe, rolled her eyes at my enthusiasm. As the film began, the vibrant title appeared, prompting them to read aloud: “Goonies.” “What even is a goonie?” they pondered.
“A goonie is someone who doesn’t quite fit in,” my partner clarified.
“Were you a Goonie, Dad?” Lily asked with genuine concern.
“No, I wasn’t. Just watch,” he replied, a mix of annoyance and excitement on his face.
As Josh Brolin’s character appeared in his iconic sweatsuit, Lily couldn’t help but inquire, “Why is he dressed like that? Did he have surgery or something?”
After about half an hour of polite watching, my partner turned to me with a hopeful grin. “See? They like it! Right, girls?”
Their silence was telling.
“It’s good, right?” he pressed.
In unison, they replied, “Actually, Dad, it isn’t very good. It’s kind of boring.”
“It’s fine, girls,” I intervened. “Why don’t you go jump on the trampoline?”
“Sorry, Dad. We prefer movies that aren’t from the olden days. You can keep watching,” they dashed outside, leaving us behind.
A few weeks later, we made another attempt to connect through films from “the olden days.” This time, we ordered Back to the Future, popped popcorn, and settled on the couch together.
“What does ‘Back to the Future’ mean? Shouldn’t it be ‘To the Future’ or ‘Back in Time’? You can’t go back to the future, can you?” Zoe asked, her curiosity piqued.
“Can we just watch the movie?” my partner responded, trying to maintain his patience.
Despite their initial fidgeting, this time the film captivated them. They related to Marty, and the high school setting resonated well. I was surprised by some of the language that I hadn’t recalled, but since they had already seen Pitch Perfect, I felt it was manageable.
My partner beamed at me as the film progressed. After finishing the Back to the Future trilogy, the girls eagerly requested more classics from “the olden days.” We acquired the Star Wars trilogy during Blockbuster’s closing sale, and they watched both Star Wars and The Empire Strikes Back in one go. When my partner went to work, they excitedly devoured Return of the Jedi without him, a bittersweet moment for him as he reveled in their enthusiasm.
There’s a unique joy in connecting our childhood experiences with our children’s. While we can’t truly be friends as if we grew up together, sharing these films allows us to glimpse into our past and introduces them to the magic of our youth. Perhaps they are ready for Can’t Buy Me Love next.
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In summary, revisiting cherished childhood films can create a unique bonding experience between parents and children, allowing for shared laughter, discussions, and memories that bridge generations.
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