Tag: loss
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Embracing the Term ‘Rainbow Baby’ for My Daughter
Get Pregnant Fast There’s something captivating about storms. The winds pick up, heralding the arrival of dark, brooding clouds that loom ominously, like a battalion preparing for battle. As they gather, they command respect, and the atmosphere shifts dramatically. The once-clear blue sky gives way to an array of colors—deep navy, murky gray, and eerie…
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Navigating the Pain of Losing a Parent: Why Grief Isn’t Something You Just ‘Get Over’
Get Pregnant Fast As I clutched the phone, listening to the muted sounds of the ICU where my father lay in his final moments, I thought to myself, This is the worst part. This was the moment I had steeled myself for ever since his diagnosis of esophageal cancer nine months ago. Each chemotherapy setback,…
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Honoring Mothers: A Moment of Reflection This Mother’s Day
Get Pregnant Fast As Mother’s Day approaches, it’s essential to take a moment to celebrate not only the mothers who are present in our lives but also to remember those who have passed away. For many, this day can be bittersweet—a stark reminder of the absence of a beloved mother who is no longer with…
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After Loss: The Distinction Between Moving On and Moving Forward
Get Pregnant Fast As autumn leaves danced around my vehicle, a gentle November breeze swayed the nearly bare branches lining the road. During my commute, I absorbed an enlightening discussion from NPR. Renowned director and writer Kenneth Lonergan shared profound insights on the theme of loss and human response. He emphasized a crucial distinction: moving…
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Holding My Breath: Experiencing Pregnancy After Multiple Losses
Get Pregnant Fast As I lay on the examination table, I felt a familiar heaviness in my chest. The ultrasound technician gently maneuvered the wand over my belly, and I gripped the paper beneath me, my palms slick with sweat. This was my fourth pregnancy, and the only sign of life would soon be revealed…
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Remember the ‘Secret Moms’ This Mother’s Day
Get Pregnant Fast Mother’s Day often brings to mind joyful celebrations, but for many, it serves as a stark reminder of what has been lost. Among these individuals are the ‘Secret Moms’—women who have experienced the heart-wrenching goodbye to a baby, yet still identify as mothers. These Secret Moms carried their children within them, nurturing…
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10 Insights on Children’s Grief After the Loss of a Parent
Get Pregnant Fast In the wake of my husband’s passing, I’ve gained profound insights into how children process grief, revealing both their similarities and differences compared to adult grieving. It’s crucial for us, as caregivers, to recognize that their sorrow is just as deep and impactful, even if it manifests differently. Dismissing their grief based…
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Parents Honor Their Babies—One Newborn, One Angel
Get Pregnant Fast A poignant family portrait has captured hearts online, blending themes of loss, grief, and hope. Parents Sarah and Tom Bennett from Indiana chose to memorialize their late son by getting matching angel-wing tattoos after his passing a few years ago. Recently, they welcomed their new daughter and found a heartfelt way to…
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The Unique Challenge of Losing a Parent While Raising Young Children
Get Pregnant Fast When my mother passed away, I found myself confiding in sympathetic friends, “We’re all going to experience this someday. I just happen to be the first.” In an instant, I became the only person I knew in a club I never wanted to join: parents of young children who had lost a…
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Sometimes It Hits Me: My Mom Won’t Be Here Forever, and It’s Heartbreaking
Parenting Get Pregnant Fast Last week, I received a late-night text from my dear friend, Sarah. Sarah is a vibrant soul with bouncy chestnut curls that frame her face, perfectly mirroring her lively personality. Typically, her messages are filled with funny GIFs, nostalgic photos, or amusing moments of her kids caught in Snapchat filters. She’s…