Friendship is a complex journey, with people entering and exiting our lives at various stages. Some come in like a breath of fresh air during tough times, while others become lifelong companions. Recently, a friend of mine lightheartedly remarked, “You can’t shake me off that easily; I’m here for the long haul!” Her words brought a sense of comfort, as I genuinely enjoy her company.
True friends transform our lives, share in our laughter, and lend support during our darkest moments. Those who stand by you during challenges are the ones who offer honest feedback and don’t abandon ship when you stumble. They remain steadfast until you find your footing again.
For a significant part of my life, I tended to keep people at arm’s length, but I changed that mindset a few years ago. Now, I welcome connections. One of my long-time friends, Mia, who practices law in Boston, surprised me on my 30th birthday. She showed up unannounced because she wanted to meet my new roommate and ensure he was a decent guy.
Then there’s my best friend, Lily, from Singapore. Our friendship spans three decades, and she supported me through the loss of my father. She even visited him before he passed, holding his hands, and shared a meal with me during the funeral.
Last year, I encountered one of my soul sisters at a retreat. She’s someone with whom I can discuss life, spirituality, and all the enchanting aspects of existence—she just gets it.
I consider myself fortunate to have several friends who have witnessed my journey. They comfort me when I cry and embrace my quirks, just as I do for them. If you’re lucky enough to have such friends, be sure to reciprocate their support. Show up for them, express your affection, and let them know they matter.
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In conclusion, true friendships are invaluable. They bring joy, support, and a sense of belonging, reminding us of our worth and the importance of nurturing these connections.