Caught your attention, right? Let me explain. After nearly four years of being divorced, how can someone claim to be in love with their Ex? The answer is simple—I truly am. In fact, I find myself loving him more now than during our marriage! He’s more attractive, kinder, and an absolute joy to be around. So, pick your jaws up off the floor and listen to my story.
My Ex is a total rock star. But don’t get it twisted; this isn’t about me trying to find him a partner. Trust me, he has plenty of admirers, and I don’t need a substitute mom for my kids either—they have me! Perhaps, this will provide a glimpse into what a healthy divorce can look like for all you divorcees out there, especially when you prioritize your kids and let go of your egos.
I genuinely love my ex-husband. While our marriage may not have been meant to last, we were fortunate enough to have two incredible kids. When we decided to part ways, we also made a commitment to do it right! Forget the petty issues and drama; it’s all about the kids. Being happily divorced is just as challenging as being happily married—it requires effort! I unabashedly love my Ex, and I’m proud to admit it.
He knows that a joyful life means a HAPPY EX-WIFE!
Money Matters
Our relationship could have its own soundtrack, with the theme song being “Mo’ Money, Mo’ Problems.” Seriously, isn’t it always about the money? And I’m not just referring to alimony and child support; that’s just a given. Listen closely—don’t bicker over finances or waste it on attorneys. Keep it between the two of you; it should ultimately benefit your kids. Initially, I didn’t grasp this concept, but my Ex was fantastic at helping me see it from his angle. Divorce can be terrifying, especially after being married for 12 years. Who do I trust? He constantly reminded me, “We need to focus on the boys.” And that’s exactly what we did. We utilized a mediator, and our money remained ours.
We’re Still a Family
We are still a family, albeit living in separate households. We genuinely co-parent, splitting responsibilities 50/50. He’s an even better dad now than when we were together. The boys absolutely adore him because he’s fully engaged during their time together—week on, week off. We celebrate holidays together, have family dinners when possible, and sit together at our sons’ basketball games. We even took family photos during our son’s Bar Mitzvah, the four of us together. Why? Because I want my kids to look back at their family album and think, “My parents made this divorce easy!”
She Drives Me Crazy
He still puts up with my quirks. Sure, he could ignore my calls—I’m not his wife anymore. Most men would, thinking, “You’re not my concern.” But not my Ex. He responds to my texts every time. He still handles my taxes, fixes my leaky faucets, and comes over at odd hours to help me deal with mice. He listens to my rants about work or my dating life. I used to be his “ridiculous wife,” and now I’m just the “ridiculous ex.” It’s a bit absurd, isn’t it? But he’s always there when I need him.
My New Boyfriend
I know how to choose ‘em, and I often pick duds. They usually last a month or two, and my Ex helps me through the aftermath, like when I’m stuck in bed crying for days. Now he insists on doing background checks before I agree to go out! But guess what? I’m finally dating a great guy! My Ex and the boys even gave him a nickname: “Number 13.” When I asked why he was #13, my son simply said, “Duh, Mom, he’s like number 13.” Classic, right?
The Truth About My Ex
Not only is this song my ringtone on my Ex’s phone, but I might just be the reason he struggles to keep a woman. I’m joking, of course! Who wouldn’t want to be with such a great guy? Just because I’m still involved in his life doesn’t mean it’s a problem. It’s a huge red flag if I’m dating someone who starts trash-talking his ex. Let’s be real; he hasn’t answered my texts during dates in years!
So, if you were to ask my Ex how he feels about me, he might say, “Sarah, you were challenging to be married to but easy to be divorced from.” A man of few words, but I appreciate it, and I love him. There’s no one else I’d rather be happily divorced from. And so, we continue to live our Happily Ever After-ish life.
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In summary, navigating a divorce can be challenging, but it’s possible to maintain a loving bond and prioritize your children. Embracing a happy co-parenting relationship can lead to a fulfilling post-marriage life where both parties thrive.
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